Paranoid?

Chyse · Post by **Chyse** » Mon Dec 03, 2007 1:55 pm

So, i've been dating my girlfriend for over a year now. And she's amazing. But i feel like she has more fun with my guy friends than she does with me. And i feel like she's working harder at our relationship than i am, and i don't feel right. I'm her first boyfriend so she doesn't really know how relationships are supposed to go... And i feel like other guys could make her happier than i do. Though she'll deny it left and right, because she's never been with anybody else. I don't know, i just feel like she's a way better girlfriend than i am a boyfriend. I think she deserves better.
Maybe i'm just being paranoid. But i can't help thinking that she could be happier with somebody else. And i want to be with her, but if i'm not making her as happy as some other guy could, i want her to be with him.
=( idk... maybe i'm worrying too much.

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manadren · Post by **manadren** » Mon Dec 03, 2007 3:47 pm

Well you are her first boyfriend, so shoe probably doesn't know exactly what to expect out of the relationship yet. So don't expect too much, but don't get too paranoid either. She's still figuring it out.

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Tue Dec 04, 2007 12:38 am

Doesn't sound like paranoia to me, more like depression.

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Chyse · Post by **Chyse** » Tue Dec 04, 2007 6:58 am

Yeah, i think my ADHD meds are giving me depression in the middle of the day. I need to talk to my doctor, but my mom won't make an appointment or anything.
So i talked to my girlfriend about it and she reassured me that she's uber happy and that she loves me. *sigh* i love her so much =)
But i need new meds.

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robonightmare · Post by **robonightmare** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 8:45 am

Just don't take the meds. that's what I do.

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Chyse · Post by **Chyse** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 11:51 am

robonightmare wrote: Just don't take the meds. that's what I do.

If i don't take my meds, i'll fail even worse than i already am.

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robonightmare · Post by **robonightmare** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 9:15 pm

Oh...well, that would explain my current situation.

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Bookworm · Post by **Bookworm** » Wed Dec 05, 2007 11:01 pm

goalguarder12 wrote: Maybe i'm just being paranoid. But i can't help thinking that she could be happier with somebody else.

That's not being paranoid. It's being realistic. There is SOME aspect in which somone else could make her happier, but there is also SOME aspect in which you are making her happy, so just relax and don't worry that you are not the other guy or that she might want someone else.

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