when did you start?

firstchoice · Post by **firstchoice** » Sat Mar 10, 2007 12:56 pm

just wondering but when did you start doing sexual things with your partner? what age?

please give honest responses.

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scherzo · Post by **scherzo** » Sat Mar 10, 2007 5:06 pm

I really don't understand the nature of the question or its purpose? If you are seeking to validate your actions or planned actions - you don't need others approval expecially with these issues. This is something you should be open with and discuss with you partner.

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firstchoice · Post by **firstchoice** » Sat Mar 10, 2007 5:13 pm

i understand what you mean and yes this is discussed frequntly between us. but it does pass threw are minds that we are only 14.

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Sat Mar 10, 2007 8:16 pm

I'd say you are way too young to be doing stuff like that. You'll most likely regret doing it when you're older.

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scherzo · Post by **scherzo** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 12:30 am

firstchoice wrote: i understand what you mean and yes this is discussed frequntly between us. but it does pass threw are minds that we are only 14.

Many parents will seek to protect their children at this age. Understanding the child is still being 'raized' you will find many attitudes near criminal.

Objectivley both of you ( at 14 ) are undergoing physical changes. These changes have a very real affect on your judgement of what is right, wrong, fair or just. Given this confusion wether realized by yourself or not, many would recomend a 'councilor' to aid in your decision process. The councilor has an obligation and duty to only 'one' client in most cases. given both of you are 14, both of you should seek council independantly. Council can be in the form of a 'health' doctor, Student councilor, Priest, Physciatry Dr., Parent, Lawyer, etc.

There are very real concequences you would need to inform yourself of. If you have the courage to ask, you will find the professionals willing to help

It is not wrong to think or feel the way you do - It is however unadvized to make a decision without knowing all the facts - both of you need to speak to someone in confidence and not in an open board

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 12:35 pm

Fourteen is too young. Don't have sex with someone with whom you'd be upset to have a baby with. Condoms offer the best protection against fluid-borne diseases, but are less effective at protecting against skin-to-skin STDs. Birth control pills have potential severe health risks, including blood clots and strokes. Besides, allowing yourself to mature a bit more will help you get more out of sex than if you go at it more like you're just scratching an itch.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 12:41 pm

This is my personal belief, but I say don't have sex before you are truly committed to your partner. By that, at least engaged or married. Some would argue "well you need to try them all and pick the best one" but you are picking a partner by how good they are in bed, then thats just not right.

Again this is my personal belief and I never had a girl friend, so what do I have to say.

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Reaper · Post by **Reaper** » Sun Mar 11, 2007 10:49 pm

firstchoice wrote: i understand what you mean and yes this is discussed frequntly between us. but it does pass threw are minds that we are only 14.

You're 14? Wtf are you thinking kid?

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firstchoice · Post by **firstchoice** » Mon Mar 12, 2007 12:07 am

lol yes 14 XD
and i didn't mean straight out sex. meant more like hands and oral. =\n
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Pojo_ · Post by **Pojo_** » Mon Mar 12, 2007 4:29 pm

firstchoice wrote: i understand what you mean and yes this is discussed frequntly between us. but it does pass threw are minds that we are only 14.

14 is way to young. Im agnostic and 18 and ive decided to save that moment for when im married and with someone that I will always love.

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Reaper · Post by **Reaper** » Mon Mar 12, 2007 4:31 pm

firstchoice wrote: . . .and oral. =\n

Once again, 14.

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flowergirlajg · Post by **flowergirlajg** » Tue Mar 13, 2007 6:59 pm

i started around when i was 9 and been doing it ever since!

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Tue Mar 13, 2007 8:02 pm

are you serious??

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flowergirlajg · Post by **flowergirlajg** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 11:28 am

no of course not!! lol i havent started yet!! you thought i was SERIOUS!

LOL!!!

:lol::lol:

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Fri Mar 16, 2007 4:34 pm

you can never be sure these days

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flowergirlajg · Post by **flowergirlajg** » Tue Mar 20, 2007 6:09 pm

ha ha ha lol

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 3:55 pm

Clueless wrote: you can never be sure these days

Sad but true. I remember when to me, seeing someone smoke was like OMG WTF are you doing? When I went to elementary and saw that some people smoked, I was like shocked. Now, if that's all they do at that age, they're doing well. LOL

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Thu Mar 22, 2007 4:00 pm

yeah a freshman at my school got a sophmore pregnant.

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flowergirlajg · Post by **flowergirlajg** » Sat Mar 24, 2007 8:24 am

Yaknowwat? A girl at my cuz 8th grade is pregnant. THAT IS FRIGGIN NASTAY!!

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michaelk1993adg · Post by **michaelk1993adg** » Tue Mar 27, 2007 3:40 pm

I think its a little strange that your even thinking about it at 14

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Reaper · Post by **Reaper** » Tue Mar 27, 2007 6:29 pm

Did you know the average age for a person to have intercourse for the first time is only 17? And getting lower? That really sucks.

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flowergirlajg · Post by **flowergirlajg** » Tue Mar 27, 2007 8:36 pm

hmph. youre right. Kinda sikko.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Wed Mar 28, 2007 9:42 pm

I don't get why people even get pleasure in these things. It's sick.

I get pleasure when code compiles, and the end result works. Now THAT is fun. And like sex, you're creating something, but you dont have to wait 9 months for it.

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manadren · Post by **manadren** » Wed Mar 28, 2007 10:04 pm

Red Squirrel wrote: I don't get why people even get pleasure in these things. It's sick.

I get pleasure when code compiles, and the end result works. Now THAT is fun. And like sex, you're creating something, but you dont have to wait 9 months for it.

oh, the comments I could make about that post.

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Thu Mar 29, 2007 9:59 am

Reaper wrote: Did you know the average age for a person to have intercourse for the first time is only 17? And getting lower? That really sucks.

Yeah, and it's not like the average age wasn't lower in the past, either. Like everything else sociological, this sort of thing fluctuates.

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