now what do I do?

unbreakable · Post by **unbreakable** » Thu Feb 09, 2006 1:25 pm

My best friend, Tiffany and I are really close but lately she's been upset with me and I have no idea why. It started Saturday when we were at competition she just started getting really upset and now she's not even talking to me. I don't even know what I've done but I've apologized..but I don't think it means anything if I don't know what I'm apologizing for, ya know? I don't recall doing anything mean or bad to upset her. I'm not the kind of person to make people upset. What should I do?

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Thu Feb 09, 2006 4:18 pm

Sometimes it something that you have no control over. She may be mad at something that someone else thinks or says becuase of you and she doesnt like that fact.

But the best thing is to give her some space and let things cool down and then talk to mutual freinds to see if they know the resaon so you can fix it or do what is needed to mend the issu.

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Thu Feb 09, 2006 4:34 pm

i had a friend at school that completely stopped talking to me one day, she ignored everything i said and i had no idea why, then someone told me she thought i was annoying so yeah, that was a bummer

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Thu Feb 09, 2006 5:28 pm

Clueless wrote: i had a friend at school that completely stopped talking to me one day, she ignored everything i said and i had no idea why, then someone told me she thought i was annoying so yeah, that was a bummer

A woman thats annoying?!? nope couldnt imagine

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Reaper · Post by **Reaper** » Thu Feb 09, 2006 5:31 pm

Maybe if you ask her? That would help probably.

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Thu Feb 09, 2006 5:32 pm

Yes, bring it to her attention that you've noticed a major difference in the way she's been treating you. Maybe you'll find out there's a rumor being spread about you or some other BS.

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Thu Feb 09, 2006 10:06 pm

VictorEM83 wrote:
Clueless wrote: i had a friend at school that completely stopped talking to me one day, she ignored everything i said and i had no idea why, then someone told me she thought i was annoying so yeah, that was a bummer

A woman thats annoying?!? nope couldnt imagine

oh thanks, couldnt imagine a guy thats annoying either, but it just seems to happen

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Fri Feb 10, 2006 2:28 am

Clueless wrote:
VictorEM83 wrote:
Clueless wrote: i had a friend at school that completely stopped talking to me one day, she ignored everything i said and i had no idea why, then someone told me she thought i was annoying so yeah, that was a bummer

A woman thats annoying?!? nope couldnt imagine

oh thanks, couldnt imagine a guy thats annoying either, but it just seems to happen

Did I say you were annoying? nope, now your putting words in my mouth and that annoying; typical woman

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unbreakable · Post by **unbreakable** » Fri Feb 10, 2006 7:50 am

VictorEM83 wrote:
Clueless wrote: i had a friend at school that completely stopped talking to me one day, she ignored everything i said and i had no idea why, then someone told me she thought i was annoying so yeah, that was a bummer

A woman thats annoying?!? nope couldnt imagine

well...you DID use the words woman and annoying..therefore we think you're referring to all women...which you probably are..sooo...you could've called her annoying.

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Fri Feb 10, 2006 3:39 pm

Are you saying woman are annoying??

Ask her what is up and if nothing happened maybe she is just having personal issues, sometimes even your closest friends need some space.

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Fri Feb 10, 2006 3:41 pm

Not Minnie

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Fri Feb 10, 2006 11:08 pm

VictorEM83 wrote: Not Minnie

Oh I think some people would think I am annoying. However, if they are smart they won't be outspoken about it.

Victor = smart man

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Sat Feb 11, 2006 2:33 am

can I quote you on that from now on?

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Sat Feb 11, 2006 11:55 pm

VictorEM83 wrote: can I quote you on that from now on?

for now yes...

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unbreakable · Post by **unbreakable** » Sun Feb 12, 2006 4:21 pm

I didn't have to ask her. I did find out what she was mad at me about. It was just a simple case of jealousy, because everyone was talking to me at competition and not her. She's over it now though.

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Bookworm · Post by **Bookworm** » Sun Feb 12, 2006 5:20 pm

I guess Victor knew what he was talking about when he said:

Sometimes it something that you have no control over. She may be mad at something that someone else thinks or says becuase of you and she doesnt like that fact.

But the best thing is to give her some space and let things cool down and then talk to mutual freinds to see if they know the resaon so you can fix it or do what is needed to mend the issu.

The nice thing about having good friends is that, even though little misunderstandings may happen at times, the basic friendship will remain there to fall back on.

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Mon Feb 13, 2006 2:22 am

Bookworm wrote: I guess Victor knew what he was talking about when he said:
Sometimes it something that you have no control over. She may be mad at something that someone else thinks or says becuase of you and she doesnt like that fact.

But the best thing is to give her some space and let things cool down and then talk to mutual freinds to see if they know the resaon so you can fix it or do what is needed to mend the issu.
The nice thing about having good friends is that, even though little misunderstandings may happen at times, the basic friendship will remain there to fall back on.

Well I have had my fair share of experiences with women(I lived with 3 of them as roommates for a year). Lets just say it gives me some really good incite on many issues. Plus I learned a few skills from them

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