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Angel · Post by **Angel** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 2:12 pm

IM NOT ADVERTISING!!!!!!!!!!!!

but in another forum they are talking about fat girls and how nobody wants to date them,what I wonder,and any guys responding be honest,how come guys reject fat girls? And also when you see a young your age fat girl what are you thinking???

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Andy · Post by **Andy** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 2:20 pm

Well when i see a large gal i think. Heck she eats weathy. I dated a havy set girl onec. She was the best person ive ever have.. Nice. Knew alot. I like my A little large. Not a problem for me. I think large gals are nicer and know how to treate someone they love well.

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Angel · Post by **Angel** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 2:23 pm

i THINK FAT PEOPLE HAVE MORE ADVANTAGES THEN SKINNY

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sweetness · Post by **sweetness** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 3:35 pm

why? ^

slightly overweight is not an issue for me although the bigger a person is the less i'm sexually attracted to them

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Angel · Post by **Angel** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 3:57 pm

because they do ,like in a fight

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Cicero · Post by **Cicero** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 6:16 pm

In a fight you dont need to be fat to have an advantage. Just broad shoulders, which I have. Its really handy in rugby too.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 6:20 pm

If I see a fat person, it gives me a good indication that they are probably very lazy and just eat too much. Of course I don't think that right away, since there are some people that are fat by nature, but in most situations it can be controlled. It's harder to gain weight then to loose.

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The Gheyness · Post by **The Gheyness** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 7:07 pm

Red Squirrel wrote: If I see a fat person, it gives me a good indication that they are probably very lazy and just eat too much. Of course I don't think that right away, since there are some people that are fat by nature, but in most situations it can be controlled. It's harder to gain weight then to loose.

lmao...you're gonna get into so much trouble for that first statement!

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 7:15 pm

Yeah I know.

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Chyse · Post by **Chyse** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 9:51 pm

well, when i see a fat person, i think that well, their probably a kind person, because, large people usually dont get treated as well as skinny people. so they know how it feels to be made fun of. but sometimes i'm horribly wrong. like there was this kid, and he was overweight, but not SUPER fat. and he was a

!! let me tell you!!! this kid was an a$$ hole!! he wanted to beat me up even. so he cornered me in band class after the teachers had left and most of the kids were gone. he tells me he wants to fight me and is trying to egg me on. i say, no, i'm not gonna fight you. so he throws a punch at my head, i move over and he misses horribly.then i throw a fake punch, (like i stop right in front of his face) and he flinches and curls his arms and face up. he got all scared. so i look at him, flinching like i'm mahhamad ali, and i make a quick chuckle and walk out. he never bothered me again. but anyways back to the fat people subject. i went out with this girl onece and she was kinda fat, but she was nice and we went out for a while. but, sincerely, i sorta feel bad for fat people, and sorta dissapointed cause like, i play soccer, and because of that, i get really in shape, but all they cant join many teams, exept for rec i guess.so yeah. my oppinion on fat peeps.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Tue Aug 24, 2004 10:01 pm

Haha when I was in grade 11 some grade 7 wanted to beat me up. I just laughed in his face and kept walking. He never even ran after me or anything, so that shows he was just some pussy bullie type person. I should of said yes.

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Anonymous · Post by **Anonymous** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 2:29 am

Angel wrote: IM NOT ADVERTISING!!!!!!!!!!!!

but in another forum they are talking about fat girls and how nobody wants to date them,what I wonder,and any guys responding be honest,how come guys reject fat girls? And also when you see a young your age fat girl what are you thinking???

If she's hella fat I think "DAMN that fat pig needs to stop stuffing her filthy

face. Fat

."

If she's just plump I think "Meh, okay."

If she's properly sized, not too fat not too thin, "YAYZORS"

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Angel · Post by **Angel** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 5:22 am

you peoples are a-s-s wholes.People who are fat gennarlay have a problem like depression,or hypo thyroidism like me ,i have hypo thyroidism.

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sweetness · Post by **sweetness** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 7:14 am

Generally fat people eat too much and do very little exercise,
a small percentage have health issues that conflicts with their weight.
I have no sympathy for fat people who are unhappy with themselves but refuse to do anything about it.
Is it ok to say that?

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Angel · Post by **Angel** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 7:37 am

well hypo throidism is a disorder of energy so oyu have no choice about that but i do walk a lot

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manadren · Post by **manadren** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 9:03 am

I find it rather ironic that Angel has the bloody Oscar Mayer song as her sig.

*cough* that out of the way on to the issue at hand.

Some guys like larger girls, some care care more about other things, and some guys are bingholesonly concerned with the superficial. To say that fat girls always get rejected is to say that they get rejected by that third type, but they often have very good luck with the other two. This is not to say that being mindful of your weight is a bad thing, but as long as you try to stay healthy and keep a positive outlook, things will work out fine in the end. And I'm starting to sound like a bloody after school special, but I digress.

Once those little pricks telling you fat girls always get rejected grow up and get their noses out of the sports illustrated swimsuit issue, they'll figure out what's really important. And for many of them, it will be getting laid. And once they realize that they won't be boinking with halle berry anytime soon, they will start noticing that women without perfect bodies have their merits too

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sweetness · Post by **sweetness** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 11:11 am

hear hear

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 1:32 pm

My aunt does not watch her diet and she's 600 pounds and rediculously big. She got a coma in her downstairs appartment and they needed 6 strong men to take her out, and they had to make a hole in the wall portion that's above ground and use pullies and stuff to lift her out. Since then she's in a special home since the paramedics said they will never go through that again.

She has diabeties so it's harder to watch your weight, but if she would at least try she would not be so big. But she eats like crazy. And now it's too late, since she's too big to do any type of work out.

When we got our deck built it used to squeek when we go on it, but once she sat on the steps and they went down about 5 inches, and the deck has not squeeked since then.

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MrSelf · Post by **MrSelf** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 2:05 pm

Red Squirrel wrote: She has diabeties so it's harder to watch your weight, but if she would at least try she would not be so big. But she eats like crazy. And now it's too late, since she's too big to do any type of work out.

Exactly, most people are not 'fat' because of a thyroid problem, or some other chemical imbalance, but have those problems because they are overweight. Then, they get so bad that they can't fix it without going through more pain/effort than they want to. There are people that do have genuine problems, but only about 10% of the people who claim to... So for the most part, I agree with sweetness. But back to the question: how come guys reject fat girls?

They don't, jerks reject people without getting to know them. People who act like that aren't worth getting to know. Your body shape and physical fitness level aren't requirements for friendship, how you act is. These people didn't even give that a chance.

And also when you see a young your age fat girl what are you thinking???

Honestly, I wonder what they think about, what is so important to them that they ignore their health. But for the most part, I just do what I always do.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 2:21 pm

Yeah it's best to get to know someone before judging them.

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Angel · Post by **Angel** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 2:25 pm

for the most part i think skinny or not overweight people don't watch their health most of them i know are eating more than I do. Most people use your weight agaisnt you and say things like,you cant get any guys,or you eat A LOT,WAY MORE THAN A COW.It lowers the self esteem of a person so when you do ask a guy out and he says No,your otamatically thinking"its because i'm fat",I was like that when I was younger and I ate nothing at one point and to the next i would eat EVERYTHING,people dont relize by saying those things you lower the self esteem of a person and than when you ask a guy (or girl) out you think its because i'm fat which lowers it even more than it gets to a stage of depression,not wanting to go any where or do anything always crying, my sister taught me that for every tear your cry someone tells a lie,,meaning eveytime you cry over something like that its a cruel lie,maybe you are fat that dosent mean you are a bad person.Everytime I wanted to cry i would find something happy to do,til it got to the point I never cried cause there wsa no point,even if everything was tooken away from you,you still have your mind,the creativeist toy ever,knowone can take that away!

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sweetness · Post by **sweetness** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 4:28 pm

I agree that being over weight for a lot of people reduces their self esteem and it becomes a vicious circle where they may eat more to try and combat their insecurities. Food becomes comfort.
As for the issue regarding men not being attracted to overweight women - there are alot of men out there that want man made barbie's hanging off their arms... it seems to me that it is these guys that have the biggest problem.
What would you rather ? A weight problem you can work on or a shallow perception of life that will eventually lead to long term unhappiness and self doubt ?

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 8:08 pm

I agree with Mr. Self, jerks reject Fat people.

I think most of you are just like society and answered the question pretty clearly why some guys reject Fat or overweight girls. Because they are to full of themselves to give overweight people a chance to get to know them. I look at people for who they are, Generally you can tell if someone is fat and ugly and lazy and if someone is overweight struggling with a problem. If I judged everyone I know wether they are fat, ugly, beautiful or pick out their faults by appearance I would have a lonely life. As you grow up and mature a little bit you find someone's weight will not be such an issue.

I am not thin and I am overweight, I don't care what any of the people think that are inconsiderate and rude. To me that just shows them that they need to feel better about themselves. I have never had a problem getting men or being in a relationship. Anyhow, what is fat to you people? 10lbs overweight or maybe 50lbs overweight? Who decides?? You because your 20lbs less or maybe only 5lbs overweight for yourself? Maybe your underweight so people that are normal just look fat to you?

I realize most of this forum is young and are going through issues with weight and personality and who is popular and who's not. Dam guys, just be yourself and who cares about what the next person thinks.

I do have one more comment...maybe you just think that some guys don't want the fat chics, but guess who usually says it, it's the chic sitting over in the corner a little plump herself or the guy sitting there with muscles and no brains...I think it's a rude comment to make in the first place and if your reading this being offended about what some of these members are saying, don't worry about it..just goes to show their intelligence level

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Anonymous · Post by **Anonymous** » Wed Aug 25, 2004 8:54 pm

Angel wrote: you peoples are a-s-s wholes.People who are fat gennarlay have a problem like depression,or hypo thyroidism like me ,i have hypo thyroidism.

That is not an excuse, and secondly, most fat people are just bullshitters that eat too much. I'm fat and know I'm a piece of

, but I'm doing something about it instead of whining about my glands or some

like that.

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sweetness · Post by **sweetness** » Thu Aug 26, 2004 3:31 am

its so good to see mr wallace has returned !
:willwallace:

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