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I have a date, and it's the first in my life. I don't know what to do!!!
I know you guys have some experiance, so can I get a little help? I'm begging you... I can get a 100 percent on an algebra test, but I can't even date a girl without even asking for help? oh my.


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uhh, go to it? lol

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Red Squirrel wrote: uhh, go to it? lol

Lol, i've been on a lot of dates. Most of them, you could say, "worked." but then the relationship didn't last long.

Just listen to what she says (I kind of failed to do that a few times..), don't crack jokes out of desperation to make her laugh. Don't keep thinking that it will go horribly, it usually never does, try and keep the conversation going and i'd keep eye contact 24/7. You'll find out later..

There were a few things I thought when I went on my first date. I kept thinking that if I fell or something it would just be over. Just laugh along if you fall. Unless you trip and bring her down with you. Well, I don't know what to do there. Um.. I think thats it, just have fun and don't act nervous. I guess another thing that guys think a lot is appearance is everything. Yeah, its not.

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Dont outrun her. go slooooow. Talk about Marylin Manson.
Trust me.

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And say that her clothes make her look skinny, no wait, then she'll think you're trying to say that normally she looks fat.. hmm, well, just don't go there, its a sensitive area.

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Oh, and the important thing, if you're going to a restaurant then it is vital that you eat off her plate and to make her pay.

/sarcasm off

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robonightmare wrote: I know you guys have some experiance

That reeks of sarcasm.

So, I have a friend who—unprovoked—gave me the temperature in Celsius one night because he recalled that that was one of my things. That is, hands down, the sweetest thing anyone’s done, and it didn’t cost a decidollar.

You should do something like that. She knows you want her body, but let her know you want her mind too. But then again, I’ve never been a good boyfriend and, indeed, I have given up on the whole idea.

Tell us how your date goes.

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Yeah dude. I NEED to know.

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okay, robo. Listen, the absolute best advice i've ever been given about girls, is BE YOURSELF. Girls HATE guys who are being fake. She could be a million years out of your league, don't act like the guys who you think she would date. be YOU. Lots of girls, especially teenage girls, are looking for guys who are mature. Because girls mature about 3-4 years faster than boys do. So they want a guy as mature as they are. Being who you are, shows a HUGE amount of maturity. Don't lie, don't be corny, be yourself.
And don't try too hard. She's just a girl. If this doesn't work out, your life will go on, everything will be okay, and you'll meet some wonderful person someday. Don't worry about it.
Talk to her like you would a friend. (not a male friend, a female friend. fart jokes and attractive actresses are not good topics >.<) but be comfortable when talking to her. Don't portray her as somebody you're trying to impress. Because you're not trying to impress her. You're finding out who you both are, and if you connect, great. if not, great, you'll try again with somebody else.

Basically, take this lightly and be yourself. Those are the ways to impress women. Girls like maturity in a man most of all. Maturity and Confidence. So be confident and take it easy. She's just a girl. And be yourself. You want her to like you, not some guy you pretend to be.

oh, and don't feel bad for asking for help. Girls are scary as hell. I was lucky enough to have many female friends when i was single, i asked them sooo many questions. Talking to girls, especially if you're one of those kids who "gets 100 percents on algebra tests," is really really scary.

oh, and flowers always help =)

any more questions?

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Flowers are for funerals, weddings, and anniversaries; not first dates.

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First date is best spent at mcdonalds, watching the kids in the playland and parents trying to get them out. Then you can tell her stuff like "soon, that will be us!" If she agrees, then you show the engagement ring. (make sure you get it on special in case she says no)

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Stasi wrote: Flowers are for funerals, weddings, and anniversaries; not first dates.

okay, stasi's right. not for first dates. but for like...if she's coming over to your house for a romantic evening with a candle light dinner or something. then flowers are appropriate. lol

oh, and dude, don't worry about the price of that engagement ring, just get one and keep asking different girls until one of them says yes. then give the ring to them. XD



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THX SO MUCH. this is gonna go great. It was supposed to be last weekend, but things did'nt work, out, so It's gonna be this weekend. as soon as it's OVER WITH (JK ) I'll tell you how it went. and I've got a good feeling about this since we have been just friends for a while now.

*Next weekend, just after date*

OMG , I'VE BEEN DUMPED, AND I AM BLAMING IT ON YOU PEOPLE!!!
[crying uncontrollably] A-A-AND I N-N-NEVER WA-ANT T-TO S-S-SEE A-ANY OF Y-YOU AH-AH-AGAIN!!! WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH!!! I'M G-G-GONNA SPAM YOU ALL!!! ALL OF YOU!!!!![/crying uncontrollably]



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goalguarder12 wrote:

Stasi wrote: Flowers are for funerals, weddings, and anniversaries; not first dates.

okay, stasi's right. not for first dates. but for like...if she's coming over to your house for a romantic evening with a candle light dinner or something. then flowers are appropriate. lol

Haha, what? He's only something like 13 or 14 years old! "Romantic evening with a candlelight dinner"?

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Stasi wrote:

goalguarder12 wrote:

Stasi wrote: Flowers are for funerals, weddings, and anniversaries; not first dates.

okay, stasi's right. not for first dates. but for like...if she's coming over to your house for a romantic evening with a candle light dinner or something. then flowers are appropriate. lol

Haha, what? He's only something like 13 or 14 years old! "Romantic evening with a candlelight dinner"?

lol, well if he stays with her till he's like 20...then maybe lol

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haha stasi's right. I'm 14, actually.
since 5 days ago, anyway

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Betch. lmao! Thats my new favorite words.
Betch.
Lmao.

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