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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:07 pm
by Stasi
Clueless wrote: Shinizo wrote: Apparently, it did. And to me, that's not being very Christian.. especially when she turned away from me when I needed help the most, and was already feeling like crap.
Again, that's why I don't trust people much anymore. Ashley's my last hope, now. Before I go insane.
what are you talking about? how was i sposed to help you when i couldnt even talk to you. i wanted to help but my dad said it was best if you found someone you could see face to face to help you. there was nothing i could do
Shin, was Clueless your girlfriend only over the internet or something?
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:09 pm
by Shinizo
Shin, was Clueless your girlfriend only over the internet or something?
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She was. Almost 2 years, and she leaves me.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:10 pm
by Clueless
Shinizo wrote: Clueless wrote: well im too young to date for one, id rather look for friends right now
If you're just looking for friends, then stop developing crushes on every guy you see that looks hotter than a stove.
ok, i know i have some crushes, but thats all they are. i cant help being attracted to people. besides, i wouldnt want to ruin the friendships i have with them, they're awesome friends
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:11 pm
by Shinizo
Clueless wrote: Shinizo wrote: Clueless wrote: well im too young to date for one, id rather look for friends right now
If you're just looking for friends, then stop developing crushes on every guy you see that looks hotter than a stove.
ok, i know i have some crushes, but thats all they are. i cant help being attracted to people. besides, i wouldnt want to ruin the friendships i have with them, they're awesome friends
You can't have crushes, apparently. Because crushes could lead to dating, and, you know.. we wouldn't want that.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:13 pm
by Clueless
it only leads to dating if you let it. i love having these people as friends
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:13 pm
by Stasi
Well, first off, Shin, you need to stop counting on long-distance internet relationships as being ultimately viable. If you don't see each other regularly, then one of you is probably going to end up meeting someone else you like, that you do have face-to-face access to.
Secondly, you ought not react to an ex as though they're wrongdoers just because you part ways with each other. I don't know exactly what happened between you two, but it doesn't sound severe enough to warrant meanspeak.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:16 pm
by Shinizo
She dumped me for a friggen book. After almost 2 years of being together, she trashed it after she read that book. I have my right to hate her, be mean. Until she understands it. Because no amount of hatred or pain towards her, will she be able to feel what I felt like when I found out. She didn't even tell me herself, her best friend did. So, that made things even worse for me. Glad she can find someone else, but I'm going to make sure she will live up to what she dumped me for, or I will make her life a living hell, if it comes to it.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:18 pm
by Stasi
Shinizo wrote: She dumped me for a friggen book. After almost 2 years of being together, she trashed it after she read that book. I have my right to hate her, be mean. Until she understands it. Because no amount of hatred or pain towards her, will she be able to feel what I felt like when I found out. She didn't even tell me herself, her best friend did. So, that made things even worse for me. Glad she can find someone else, but I'm going to make sure she will live up to what she dumped me for, or I will make her life a living hell, if it comes to it.
Why? What good will it do?
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:19 pm
by Clueless
Shinizo wrote: She dumped me for a friggen book. After almost 2 years of being together, she trashed it after she read that book. I have my right to hate her, be mean. Until she understands it. Because no amount of hatred or pain towards her, will she be able to feel what I felt like when I found out. She didn't even tell me herself, her best friend did. So, that made things even worse for me. Glad she can find someone else, but I'm going to make sure she will live up to what she dumped me for, or I will make her life a living hell, if it comes to it.
i understand you hate me, but i dont have to take this from you if i dont want to, i can leave the forum anytime i want.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:21 pm
by Shinizo
Clueless wrote: Shinizo wrote: She dumped me for a friggen book. After almost 2 years of being together, she trashed it after she read that book. I have my right to hate her, be mean. Until she understands it. Because no amount of hatred or pain towards her, will she be able to feel what I felt like when I found out. She didn't even tell me herself, her best friend did. So, that made things even worse for me. Glad she can find someone else, but I'm going to make sure she will live up to what she dumped me for, or I will make her life a living hell, if it comes to it.
i understand you hate me, but i dont have to take this from you if i dont want to, i can leave the forum anytime i want.
Then go ahead and leave. I never had to take any of this sh!t from you, but I ended up having it forced down my throat. I could've left you the first time you left me for some other guy.. or the 2nd time you tried to leave me, but no. I stayed with you. And then you leave me a 3rd time for a book. I'm sick of all this, and I hope you get that back from someone you really love.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:22 pm
by Cicero
Did ye 2 ever actually meet each other?
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:24 pm
by Shinizo
Cicero wrote: Did ye 2 ever actually meet each other?
There were plans. I was sposed to go up there this summer, cause I had saved some money, and mom was gonna help. But, ever since this happened, I told her not to.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:24 pm
by Stasi
Is it any surprise? If she was getting disinterested in you times prior to it, how can you say it was a 'book' that did it, when the book was about dating - obviously something neither of you did with each other. Internet girlfriends or boyfriends don't last. You should've learned that from this experience. Now you're setting yourself up for another 'rejection'.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:26 pm
by Shinizo
Stasi wrote: Is it any surprise? If she was getting disinterested in you times prior to it, how can you say it was a 'book' that did it, when the book was about dating - obviously something neither of you did with each other. Internet girlfriends or boyfriends don't last. You should've learned that from this experience. Now you're setting yourself up for another 'rejection'.
Still, though. I trusted her.
I gave her chances, just like she gave me chances.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:33 pm
by Stasi
Maybe your trust was wholly misplaced. In any case, it's a natural end to an internet relationship in which there aren't any regular meetings. That she didn't tell you herself is a problem, though don't really think the way it ended was anything but the way one would expect it to. Just chill out. Your saying things as if she's immature and can't handle relationships, but by being as angry and rude as you've been, you're showing the same about you. The world doesn't end with a relationship, though it can feel that way.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:36 pm
by Shinizo
Stasi wrote: Maybe your trust was wholly misplaced. In any case, it's a natural end to an internet relationship in which there aren't any regular meetings. That she didn't tell you herself is a problem, though don't really think the way it ended was anything but the way one would expect it to. Just chill out. Your saying things as if she's immature and can't handle relationships, but by being as angry and rude as you've been, you're showing the same about you. The world doesn't end with a relationship, though it can feel that way.
Now, I didn't say she was immature and can't handle a relationship. But, I thought what she did was mean, and I plain didn't like it at all.. She could've at least told me and explained to me why. I could've been more understanding, but she just ended it and then her best friend told me after a week, that she liked someone else. *shrugs* Guess that's the way the cookie crumbles.
I probably shouldn't waste my time on her, anymore. If she can take me out of her life that quickly, I can end this pointless arguing even faster.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:38 pm
by Cicero
Shinizo wrote:
I probably shouldn't waste my time on her, anymore. If she can take me out of her life that quickly, I can end this pointless arguing even faster.
If you dont mind me asking Shinzo, this new girlfriend. Is this another internet relationship?
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:39 pm
by Clueless
i didnt really even like that person, my friend thought i did, but out of that you thought i ended it, and it had ended when my parents made me stop talking to you. you just dont understand what happened
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:41 pm
by Shinizo
Cicero wrote: Shinizo wrote:
I probably shouldn't waste my time on her, anymore. If she can take me out of her life that quickly, I can end this pointless arguing even faster.
If you dont mind me asking Shinzo, this new girlfriend. Is this another internet relationship?
It is, but she's coming down here for Christmas, and I'll be going up there sometime after that.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:41 pm
by Shinizo
Clueless wrote: i didnt really even like that person, my friend thought i did, but out of that you thought i ended it, and it had ended when my parents made me stop talking to you. you just dont understand what happened
That's a complete opposite of what you told me.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:53 pm
by Mr Smith
Hey can I get my own smiley? I'm special. Maybe this one. I like that one.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 12:59 pm
by Red Squirrel
I would never do online dating. I have better things to use my bandwidth on.
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 2:39 pm
by 000
Shinizo wrote: Cicero wrote: Did ye 2 ever actually meet each other?
There were plans. I was sposed to go up there this summer, cause I had saved some money, and mom was gonna help. But, ever since this happened, I told her not to.
She was your girlfriend for 2 YEARS AND YOU'VE NEVER SEEN HER IN PERSON?
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What, can't you get local girls to talk to you? You can't hide behind a PC forever.
OK Shinizo, here's your own personal smilie:
Stop it
I'm gonna puke
Looking for long distance love when you can't even drive is a very bad idea. Even if you can drive i wouldn't recommend it.
I gotta go...
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 4:00 pm
by Cicero
How sensitive......
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Posted: Tue Jul 19, 2005 4:16 pm
by OLKMED
Wow i can't believe one post by GG lead to all this deep talk, i like you stasi you're a good voice of reason
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