Ruthless Men

gangster_from_malone · Thu Apr 26, 2007 9:41 am

I am not saying that all men are the same....but when you are experiencing a relationship with a man that is older than you and says that they can't date you because you are too young but continues to have sexual intercourse don't you think they are the ones acting to young? And also if you tell someone you love them and they are they only one for you and make them belive every word that they say and then they turn around and do something that totally crushed you , wouldn't they be the one that was immature not you? Because thats what happened to me. I was sorta "with" a guy for almost 9 months and some of the time he had a girlfriend and some of the time he didnt, but the last month he didnt and he swore he was done with her and he loved me and all of that ....but recently i found that they were back together and now he no longer comes to see me or even talks to me....he just kinda left me with no warning or anything....what shoukd i do....forget him and move on or continue when I KNOW he'll be back once he gets sick of her again like he always does?????? IM SO CONFUSED

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Thu Apr 26, 2007 4:58 pm

i'd say you're both acting immature. if you know he's going to keep doing this then why even think about staying with him

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Thu Apr 26, 2007 5:14 pm

sometimes I'm glad I'm single. Less problems to deal with.

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Thu Apr 26, 2007 5:21 pm

exactly

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Fri Apr 27, 2007 4:13 am

F--- him. But one thing I've noticed that some girls just tend to end up with cheaters, one after another. I could go on a long, bitter rant here, but I'll spare everyone....

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gangster_from_malone · Fri Apr 27, 2007 9:14 am

yeah well i thought that you know maybe he'd be different with me and everything would change. He hasn't even spoke to me in two weeks, i think that what hes done has changed my feelings for him because i dont want to be with someone who continually breaks promises and my heart......

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Fri Apr 27, 2007 3:05 pm

Exactly. Too often these kinds of guys will tell you how sorry they are and how they'll never do it again only to break that promise once the relationship settles back into some normalcy. I'm not saying all cheaters will cheat again, I think some of that depends on the circumstances of their initial cheating, BUT in a case where guy had a girlfriend for while when you were dating and then went back to her when you told him not to... that's not a "little indiscretion". That's not a brief lapse of judgement. It's a calculated attempt to have both worlds and generally speaking, this type of guy doesn't see anything really all that wrong with it and will seek more to better avoid detection in the future, than live up to the committment he made with you.

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Bookworm · Post by **Bookworm** » Sun Apr 29, 2007 9:35 pm

I just read this thread. NOW I remember Angel. Welcome back, Angel/Gangster.

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gangster_from_malone · Mon Apr 30, 2007 11:10 am

thank you....i think i understand that he is trying to live it up til one girl finally puts there foot down and says that shes not going to tolerate it anymore and then he thinks well shes not but someone else will and i still have the other one. He keeps the girl he has now because she is socially challenged and dosent talk to anyone accept for him unless she is at school. I know this because she runs to his house directly after school and stays there until she has to go home and on the weekends she stays at his house and sometimes she'll go home at night on the weekends.......its hard for me because i really do love him and i know LOVE is an intense word ...but i think its love when you stay with oe guy for 8 months even when your not dating! and if you feel like nobody else will ever amount to them even when they treated you so badly... my mom told me that she thinks he insecure and wants 2 girls so when one leaves he has the other one....she says its the fear of being alone... idont know though...i still havent talked to him and i think i need to

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Mon Apr 30, 2007 3:58 pm

Sorry, but if he actually loves you or her, he wouldn't betray either of you and cheat. He's not a man, he's a little boy.

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