gf's parents

Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Mon Jan 23, 2006 1:52 pm

I've been going out with my gf for about three months now.......and on thursday I went to her bustop to see her when she got off, it seemed to go well, but I went down on Friday to see her, and her mom came out and talked to me.....she seemed livid.....because the neighbors called her and told on me, they told her that we hugged and she kissed me......now her mom didn't know we were going out, and she still doesn't.....but my gf just so happens to be my lil sister's best friend.....and now she can't even go over to where my sister lives if I'm there, and if her dad sees me even walking with them, then she can't come over again......her parents are being like this because they think the age difference is too great....which I think is pretty damn funny considering the fact that her parents were exactly the same age as us when they started going out....if that isn't hypocrytical, I don't know what is.....they really don't have room to talk....so now just about the only time I can see her is in my lil sisters room or in the library or sumthin where her parents won't know......I will not let this break us apart, I love her more than anything in the world, and it's gonna take a hell of a lot more than a couple of angry parents to keep us from being together.........

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Mon Jan 23, 2006 2:29 pm

How old are you and how old is your girlfriend?

edit: Hmmm... You're 16, is she 15?

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Mon Jan 23, 2006 4:37 pm

no im kidding

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unbreakable · Post by **unbreakable** » Mon Jan 23, 2006 6:46 pm

That really sucks. I know how you feel I've had that happen to me a couple of times before. parents are such tools sometimes

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 2:36 am

Its better for you her parents are like that you will get more out of it and she is at the age rebelling is cool so it will be to your benifit that they dont approve so she will rebel more and you will get laid more.

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 1:27 pm

VictorEM83 wrote: Its better for you her parents are like that you will get more out of it and she is at the age rebelling is cool so it will be to your benifit that they dont approve so she will rebel more and you will get laid more.

I don't really give a damn about getting laid as much as being together, I just want to be with her......

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 1:34 pm

Stasi wrote: How old are you and how old is your girlfriend?

edit: Hmmm... You're 16, is she 15?

no, just a lil bit more than one year age difference......its not somthing really wrong like 5 years or sumthin, thats horrible.....try 3....but she's more mature than that and she looks older, like 14 or 15.......and like I said, her parents were the same age as us when they started, so they don't really have room to talk.......and if they heared some of the things she has told me, her parents would thing I was an angel compared to the other guys she's been around......I won't really get into it because you wouldn't wanna hear it....but the point is her parents are freakin hypocrytes......

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 4:21 pm

Listerlnx666 wrote: and like I said, her parents were the same age as us when they started, so they don't really have room to talk.......

just because they started at the same age doesnt really make a difference, maybe their trying to protect her from some of the mistakes they made when they were younger

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 6:58 pm

Clueless wrote:
Listerlnx666 wrote: and like I said, her parents were the same age as us when they started, so they don't really have room to talk.......

just because they started at the same age doesnt really make a difference, maybe their trying to protect her from some of the mistakes they made when they were younger

I don't care, they needa let her make her own decisions, leave her the hell alone and maybe she'd have a higher self esteem....

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 9:48 pm

Listerlnx666 wrote:
Clueless wrote:
Listerlnx666 wrote: and like I said, her parents were the same age as us when they started, so they don't really have room to talk.......

just because they started at the same age doesnt really make a difference, maybe their trying to protect her from some of the mistakes they made when they were younger

I don't care, they needa let her make her own decisions, leave her the hell alone and maybe she'd have a higher self esteem....

wow, if everyone let there kids make their own decisions there would be alot more problems in this world then there are now

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 10:14 pm

For sure, in fact there are too many parents who simply don't care about the decisions their kids make, and it's sad. Usually noticable when you see someone with 20 piercings doing drugs, vandalism, etc. BUT some parents try hard to control their kids that are like that and simply can't, but at least they're trying.

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Clueless · Post by **Clueless** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 10:24 pm

what bugs me is when i have to sit by these kids in class who are always talking about how they hate their parents and stuff like that, their attitudes are so annoying

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 10:42 pm

I can imagine. the worse is the people that go around having sex with random people, and up getting pregnent, or making people get pregnent... what a mess they get themselves into. It's bad enough having sex "just for fun" but it's even worse doing it without proper protection.

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 12:32 am

Listerlnx666 wrote:
VictorEM83 wrote: Its better for you her parents are like that you will get more out of it and she is at the age rebelling is cool so it will be to your benifit that they dont approve so she will rebel more and you will get laid more.

I don't really give a damn about getting laid as much as being together, I just want to be with her......

then your gay?

Lets be real your 16 she 13, hmmm yea I would let my daughter be involved with that, why at 16 all I was after was getting laid, yes you want to be together but its crap guys want 3 things food sex and shelter that all we need. Now gratend pathic metrosexuals, and homos think you need love and togetherness but its mostly bullshit, at 16 get some ball and be a man or else you end up queer and dateless its cute when your young but when your older things change cute isnt what cuts it.

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000 · Post by **000** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 12:48 am

OMG! you're 16 and she's 13? Dude date girls your own age. That's just retarded. If I were her parents, I'd do the same thing. Probably worse.

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 4:18 am

0 wrote: OMG! you're 16 and she's 13? Dude date girls your own age. That's just retarded. If I were her parents, I'd do the same thing. Probably worse.

See he doesnt even follow the rule 1/2 your age + 7, until she is 21. so 16/2=8, 8+7=15 so she is out of range

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 12:11 pm

13???? I have a daughter that is turning 13 in July. If she was seeing someone that was 16 or he was making moves on her or interested I would put a stop to that! She is to young....man you don't even have a clue to what love is yet.

love someone your own age....back of the 13 yr old

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 12:49 pm

VictorEM83 wrote:
Listerlnx666 wrote:
VictorEM83 wrote: Its better for you her parents are like that you will get more out of it and she is at the age rebelling is cool so it will be to your benifit that they dont approve so she will rebel more and you will get laid more.

I don't really give a damn about getting laid as much as being together, I just want to be with her......

then your gay?

Lets be real your 16 she 13, hmmm yea I would let my daughter be involved with that, why at 16 all I was after was getting laid, yes you want to be together but its crap guys want 3 things food sex and shelter that all we need. Now gratend pathic metrosexuals, and homos think you need love and togetherness but its mostly bullshit, at 16 get some ball and be a man or else you end up queer and dateless its cute when your young but when your older things change cute isnt what cuts it.

well, to tell you the truth, I absoutly despise guys who are just after sex in a relationship, the world would be better without those kinda people in it......cause when I'm in a relationship, that isn't all I think about, mind you I do think about it, but it's the least of my concerns......when I'm with a girl, I love her......anybody into one night stands should die, I guess that's why I've only been in a couple relationships....and no, I'm not gay, that's another thing about you kinda people, just because a guy doesn't only think about getting laid every time they're around a girl, you think they're gay.....you tell them only what you think they wanna hear just to get them into bed, you pressure the crap out of them to do it, or maybe you don't, maybe you act like you're interested in what they think just so they will want to sleep with you.......you need some kind of help if you're that kind of person.......maybe the reason I don't care much about getting laid is that I actually care about the girl, ever think of that?

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 12:54 pm

Minnie wrote: 13???? I have a daughter that is turning 13 in July. If she was seeing someone that was 16 or he was making moves on her or interested I would put a stop to that! She is to young....man you don't even have a clue to what love is yet.

love someone your own age....back of the 13 yr old

I'm not making "moves" on her, keep in mind that she liked me first, she asked me out.....and she actually likes me for who I am aside from my looks, which aren't all that great....I was after somebody my age for three years, and after telling her how I really felt, I was rejected....but I don't care about that girl anymore, the girl I'm with now loves me and I love her, you have to be in my position, or age group I guess, to understand....I don't expect you to....just like her parents, only thinking I want sex fro her or somethin stupid like that......don't try to say you understand either, cause if you did, you'd see it my way.....or her way for that matter.

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 5:39 pm

Listerlnx666 wrote:
Minnie wrote: 13???? I have a daughter that is turning 13 in July. If she was seeing someone that was 16 or he was making moves on her or interested I would put a stop to that! She is to young....man you don't even have a clue to what love is yet.

love someone your own age....back of the 13 yr old

I'm not making "moves" on her, keep in mind that she liked me first, she asked me out.....and she actually likes me for who I am aside from my looks, which aren't all that great....I was after somebody my age for three years, and after telling her how I really felt, I was rejected....but I don't care about that girl anymore, the girl I'm with now loves me and I love her, you have to be in my position, or age group I guess, to understand....I don't expect you to....just like her parents, only thinking I want sex fro her or somethin stupid like that......don't try to say you understand either, cause if you did, you'd see it my way.....or her way for that matter.

First off, I did not say anything about having sex with her. I said you were making moves on her. You were, you were kissing her. Yes I do expect you to back off, she is 13 and your 16. Her liking you means while she is in her bedroom lookin at the wall and giggling because she has a crush on some boy who gave her the time of day. She does not love you....the only kind of love she even knows is what her family has giving her. She is just beginning to experience her own body and what her feelings mean. Don't you understand that she does not love you that she simply feels good because of the attention? You yourself claiming love at the age 13 with someone else is very foolish! You need to stop wrapping yourself up in girls and concentrate on your education and how you can accomplish your self goals not how you can accomplish getting this 13 yr old girl. I do understand how you feel and that is why I am trying to help you. For your sake, move on and leave her alone. She will be over you my guess is within a couple days and onto something else, like music, dancing or playing brat dollz.

I don't mean to be so harsh but seriously, you need to pull yourself together and move on.

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 5:59 pm

Minnie wrote:
Listerlnx666 wrote:
Minnie wrote: 13???? I have a daughter that is turning 13 in July. If she was seeing someone that was 16 or he was making moves on her or interested I would put a stop to that! She is to young....man you don't even have a clue to what love is yet.

love someone your own age....back of the 13 yr old

I'm not making "moves" on her, keep in mind that she liked me first, she asked me out.....and she actually likes me for who I am aside from my looks, which aren't all that great....I was after somebody my age for three years, and after telling her how I really felt, I was rejected....but I don't care about that girl anymore, the girl I'm with now loves me and I love her, you have to be in my position, or age group I guess, to understand....I don't expect you to....just like her parents, only thinking I want sex fro her or somethin stupid like that......don't try to say you understand either, cause if you did, you'd see it my way.....or her way for that matter.

First off, I did not say anything about having sex with her. I said you were making moves on her. You were, you were kissing her. Yes I do expect you to back off, she is 13 and your 16. Her liking you means while she is in her bedroom lookin at the wall and giggling because she has a crush on some boy who gave her the time of day. She does not love you....the only kind of love she even knows is what her family has giving her. She is just beginning to experience her own body and what her feelings mean. Don't you understand that she does not love you that she simply feels good because of the attention? You yourself claiming love at the age 13 with someone else is very foolish! You need to stop wrapping yourself up in girls and concentrate on your education and how you can accomplish your self goals not how you can accomplish getting this 13 yr old girl. I do understand how you feel and that is why I am trying to help you. For your sake, move on and leave her alone. She will be over you my guess is within a couple days and onto something else, like music, dancing or playing brat dollz.

I don't mean to be so harsh but seriously, you need to pull yourself together and move on.

give me a break, she's only had about 10 other boyfriends........she knows love, and she doesn't really get much from her family......she is more mature than here years, I have known her for over three, and we started going out about three months ago, so I know her pretty damned well...........beginning to experience feelings?..........oh, man, if only you heared some of the things she's told me, you'd have a different opinion, but I can't tell you those things............and also, she isn't 7, obviously you know nothing about this age or the people who inhabit it....did you say you had a daughter turning 13 in July? you should know what I'm talking about, but I guess maybe you don't pay enough attention to your daughters feelings, maybe you're just to protective of her to realize how old she really is....13 is not that young.........this is a new era than the one you grew up in, so I don't want to hear about how you think you know what you're talking about, beacause frankly, you really don't........and also, you're probly on the damn computer more often than spending time with your own daughter, so don't try and tell me anything about it........

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 6:04 pm

Minnie wrote: 13???? I have a daughter that is turning 13 in July. If she was seeing someone that was 16 or he was making moves on her or interested I would put a stop to that! She is to young....man you don't even have a clue to what love is yet.

love someone your own age....back of the 13 yr old

I'm getting pretty tired of you people saying how people are too young to know what love is.......that's just because you keep them young, and whenever there is a shred of maturity, you just stomp on it and make sure it's never seen again.......they do know what love is, those allowed to experience it anyway,and who don't have their parents knocking them down every time they get back up..........if only some of these kids would realize how much control their parents DON'T have over them.........

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 7:15 pm

Listerlnx666 wrote:
Minnie wrote:
Listerlnx666 wrote:

I'm not making "moves" on her, keep in mind that she liked me first, she asked me out.....and she actually likes me for who I am aside from my looks, which aren't all that great....I was after somebody my age for three years, and after telling her how I really felt, I was rejected....but I don't care about that girl anymore, the girl I'm with now loves me and I love her, you have to be in my position, or age group I guess, to understand....I don't expect you to....just like her parents, only thinking I want sex fro her or somethin stupid like that......don't try to say you understand either, cause if you did, you'd see it my way.....or her way for that matter.

First off, I did not say anything about having sex with her. I said you were making moves on her. You were, you were kissing her. Yes I do expect you to back off, she is 13 and your 16. Her liking you means while she is in her bedroom lookin at the wall and giggling because she has a crush on some boy who gave her the time of day. She does not love you....the only kind of love she even knows is what her family has giving her. She is just beginning to experience her own body and what her feelings mean. Don't you understand that she does not love you that she simply feels good because of the attention? You yourself claiming love at the age 13 with someone else is very foolish! You need to stop wrapping yourself up in girls and concentrate on your education and how you can accomplish your self goals not how you can accomplish getting this 13 yr old girl. I do understand how you feel and that is why I am trying to help you. For your sake, move on and leave her alone. She will be over you my guess is within a couple days and onto something else, like music, dancing or playing brat dollz.

I don't mean to be so harsh but seriously, you need to pull yourself together and move on.

give me a break, she's only had about 10 other boyfriends........she knows love, and she doesn't really get much from her family......she is more mature than here years, I have known her for over three, and we started going out about three months ago, so I know her pretty damned well...........beginning to experience feelings?..........oh, man, if only you heared some of the things she's told me, you'd have a different opinion, but I can't tell you those things............and also, she isn't 7, obviously you know nothing about this age or the people who inhabit it....did you say you had a daughter turning 13 in July? you should know what I'm talking about, but I guess maybe you don't pay enough attention to your daughters feelings, maybe you're just to protective of her to realize how old she really is....13 is not that young.........this is a new era than the one you grew up in, so I don't want to hear about how you think you know what you're talking about, beacause frankly, you really don't........and also, you're probly on the damn computer more often than spending time with your own daughter, so don't try and tell me anything about it........

Ok ya know i was actually trying to help you realize things. You know absalutly not a thing about me or my life or my children, so don't start throwing out things and being defensive because the truth hurts. Which is not a suprise to me, just exactly proves my point about your immature ways. Like this "in love" with a 13 year old girl.

You need to get off your computer and be a kid.

For the record I know my daughter very well, and it would be a cold day in hell if i ever would let a boy like you around her. Quit your moping and move on...blah blah blah..

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 7:21 pm

Listerlnx666 wrote:
Minnie wrote: 13???? I have a daughter that is turning 13 in July. If she was seeing someone that was 16 or he was making moves on her or interested I would put a stop to that! She is to young....man you don't even have a clue to what love is yet.

love someone your own age....back of the 13 yr old

I'm getting pretty tired of you people saying how people are too young to know what love is.......that's just because you keep them young, and whenever there is a shred of maturity, you just stomp on it and make sure it's never seen again.......they do know what love is, those allowed to experience it anyway,and who don't have their parents knocking them down every time they get back up..........if only some of these kids would realize how much control their parents DON'T have over them.........

I think your parents need to "control" you more. Wonder what your father would think if he knew you were this much into a little 13 yr old girl. I bet he would not be very happy. Look, I am the most open person and parent on this board or pretty dam close to it. Until you move out of your parents house and pay your own bills, stand on your own two feet and quit whining about every little thing that does not go your way..you dam right we should be in control. It's all about right choices and goals and success, don't you realize this? You don't even want to try and understand my advice or accept i might be a little right here...your to worried about you possibly actually being wrong....you really need to take a step back and get in with your own age group. Oh and if you don't want people to post and state their own opinions about things you post on the board, don't post them. The door is that way -------------------------------->>>

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000 · Post by **000** » Thu Jan 26, 2006 12:59 am

Listerlnx666 wrote:

give me a break, she's only had about 10 other boyfriends........she knows love

You're retarded.

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