dumped

Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Fri Jan 13, 2006 1:01 pm

I just got dumped yesterday by the girl that I loved more than anything in the world. I had thought that she felt the same way about me, cause she said she did. I guess not.....She wrote me a message on myspace telling me that she didn't think we should be together anymore and that she realized she loved sombody else. I know now what a broken heart feels like. There is this pain in my chest that will not go away. I have not cried in a long time, as long as I remember.....until last night. I tried hard to make her reconsider, but nothing worked. She said that the other guy said he'd be a wreck without her......I'M THE WRECK!!! I feel like I could die. I told her that she had just dug my grave. And yet right now my heart feels like its going to expire. She doesn't seem to care, wether she rips my heart out or not. She has become the very thing she hates, or hated.......and to think she thought I was gonna leave her for somebody else! I have never been this hurt in my life......I just hope she might realize what she has done to me, and maybe my pain might subside.......

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Bookworm · Post by **Bookworm** » Fri Jan 13, 2006 2:22 pm

Another "I've just been dumped" thread. Haven't had one of those in a while. It's a good thing some of the other members who used to post don't post much anymore. They would have a field day with these threads.

Anyway, the pain will go away, and you will realize in your next relationship that you are actually glad you had the previous relationship first because now you know things not to do. Of course that's not really a good reason to have lots of close dating relationships. My advise would be to just be good friends with a lot of different people without giving any one of them so much of your heart.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Fri Jan 13, 2006 3:20 pm

In a couple hours you should be alright, get yourself a good PC game (preferably a FPS with lot of blood) and you'll be ok after playing a couple rounds.

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Tue Jan 17, 2006 3:30 am

I so saw this coming.

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andthebeast13 · Post by **andthebeast13** » Tue Jan 17, 2006 4:54 am

Stasi wrote: I so saw this coming.

you mean that most highschool relationships DON'T end in marriage??
why didn't someone tell me

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Stasi · Post by **Stasi** » Tue Jan 17, 2006 1:48 pm

andthebeast13 wrote:
Stasi wrote: I so saw this coming.

you mean that most highschool relationships DON'T end in marriage??
why didn't someone tell me

Well, the manner with which he originally wrote about her is what was the dead giveaway:

Listerlnx666 wrote: Have you ever seen sombody that is so.....there is no word to describe her, so beautiful they make you want to cry? I have, I've liked this girl, well loved is the right word for it i guess, for three years now, but i have never had the guts to say anything to her. i havnt had a sexual thought about her, she just has an affect on me, i look at her and it gives me an undescribable feeling. from the day I saw her in the seventh grade until now, the tenth, I have had love for her, but I'm hating myself for never saying anything.....i dont know if I'll ever have feeling for anybody else that I've had for her....every time i picture her face in my head it makes me smile. every time i look at her picture I get butterflies. There is no word to describe how I feel about her.....if only I could just tell her, nothing has been this hard in my life.....why cant I have the courage?, why can't I step up to the plate?, how come I have to be so damn shy? the worst she could do is say no........but that is the worst.....I feel like im not complete without her, there is an empty space in my soul that only she can fill, a bottomless pit that only she can stop me from falling through........the only one who can cure my sorrows and partial depression and make me the happiest person alive.........I feel like I only have half a heart........Ive only even spoken to her once or twice, I just want her to know who I am and how I feel, and that nobody will ever feel about her the way I do.............she is my completion, the peice that missing............The One

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andthebeast13 · Post by **andthebeast13** » Tue Jan 17, 2006 10:02 pm

Stasi wrote:
andthebeast13 wrote:
Stasi wrote: I so saw this coming.

you mean that most highschool relationships DON'T end in marriage??
why didn't someone tell me

Well, the manner with which he originally wrote about her is what was the dead giveaway:

Listerlnx666 wrote: Have you ever seen sombody that is so.....there is no word to describe her, so beautiful they make you want to cry? I have, I've liked this girl, well loved is the right word for it i guess, for three years now, but i have never had the guts to say anything to her. i havnt had a sexual thought about her, she just has an affect on me, i look at her and it gives me an undescribable feeling. from the day I saw her in the seventh grade until now, the tenth, I have had love for her, but I'm hating myself for never saying anything.....i dont know if I'll ever have feeling for anybody else that I've had for her....every time i picture her face in my head it makes me smile. every time i look at her picture I get butterflies. There is no word to describe how I feel about her.....if only I could just tell her, nothing has been this hard in my life.....why cant I have the courage?, why can't I step up to the plate?, how come I have to be so damn shy? the worst she could do is say no........but that is the worst.....I feel like im not complete without her, there is an empty space in my soul that only she can fill, a bottomless pit that only she can stop me from falling through........the only one who can cure my sorrows and partial depression and make me the happiest person alive.........I feel like I only have half a heart........Ive only even spoken to her once or twice, I just want her to know who I am and how I feel, and that nobody will ever feel about her the way I do.............she is my completion, the peice that missing............The One

yeah after you said you that saw this coming i went back and read the original thread... and thought it was kinda funny.
i wonder how many females know what kind of an influence they have on guys? depending on the instance... if a guy likes a girl, they'd typically do alot for them

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Thu Jan 19, 2006 4:12 pm

Poor SoB. I mean seriously he loved a girl that he hadnt talked to ouch that has to be harsh. I would say get a hooker for a nite or two and that you will never see again that will fix your problem.

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Fri Jan 20, 2006 10:03 pm

yup move on...the pain will go away with time. keep busy!

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 7:03 pm

VictorEM83 wrote: Poor SoB. I mean seriously he loved a girl that he hadnt talked to ouch that has to be harsh. I would say get a hooker for a nite or two and that you will never see again that will fix your problem.

NO DAMMIT!!!!this is not the same girl as back then, jeezus..........why the hell would I love somebody who wouldn't like me for who I am?!
This girl did, well, does is the way to put it I guess, because we're back together, so it's cool now...........but there's a new problem, look at my "gf's parents" post.......

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Tue Jan 24, 2006 7:23 pm

The conclusion I draw from girlfriends at a young age is that they're nothing but trouble. Sometimes it bothers me that the urge to get a girl friend is not in me yet, but other times, I thank God for that fact and know my time will come at his own will, and it will hopefully go better then a high school girl friend type deal.

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unbreakable · Post by **unbreakable** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 11:28 am

But some girls can still be mature..not all of them are hellraisers at a young age, Red.

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Listerlnx666 · Post by **Listerlnx666** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 1:04 pm

unbreakable wrote: But some girls can still be mature..not all of them are hellraisers at a young age, Red.

yes, thank you, that's what I've been try to say in this and my other post, she is mor mature than her age, that's why it feels so right, I just wish there were more people like you around here.....

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 2:35 pm

unbreakable wrote: But some girls can still be mature..not all of them are hellraisers at a young age, Red.

Yes true, I've seen some relationships actually last, though 90% of them fail. Heck, the failure rate of starting a business is lower then that. (85% or something like that)

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unbreakable · Post by **unbreakable** » Wed Jan 25, 2006 4:27 pm

I'm sorry to hear that. Don't worry, red, you'll meet someone one of these days! your a great guy from what I know.

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VictorEM83 · Post by **VictorEM83** » Thu Feb 02, 2006 1:52 am

you know most people say the same thing about most serial killers too

he was such a nice guy I couldn't even think of him doing that! Danm now reds secrets up hide

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Shinizo · Post by **Shinizo** » Thu Feb 02, 2006 8:21 am

Just give it time, mang. If I've learned anything from relationships, don't overreact, you destroy chances of, pretty much, a friendship with that person. Don't bother to try to forget about her, because you can;t forget a past. Just keep on pressing forward. She's an ex for a reason now, and you should look to the future for a possibility to find someone else.

Don't plead or beg with her to take you back. Pointless. Just accept it, move on, and eat some ice cream. Mmm.. Ice cream. HP +20

And to Red's situation. You need Ice cream +1. Hp +50 mmm. Ice cream +1. Just remember, if she doesn't have a Golden Harness of the level 50 area, she's not worth your time!

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