please help

Chyse · Post by **Chyse** » Mon Mar 14, 2005 6:34 pm

this kid at school. is really mean to me. he keeps talking about beating me up. i finally want to beat him up. wether i die or not. i don't care anymore. he deserves every bit of pain i can deal to him. i told this to my friend. she got mad at me. after arguing for about 25 mins. i leave. and say, " from now on, i have no feelings." she says," chris, don't beat him up." and i reply with," no, i will fight him, and if i lose, i'll let him beat me up. until i go to the hospital. and then, i'll let go, i'll pull out the IV." then i walked inside and slammed the door.

please help. i cant do this much longer.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Mon Mar 14, 2005 7:31 pm

I had this kid in grade 8 that used to bullie me all the time. He just made fun of every single word that came out of my mouth. The best thing I ever did was talk to the princapal about it. Beating him up would of only got me in trouble, because I could of probably killed him. I almost hit him with a chair once, he just drove me insane.

So do that, talk to the princapal or anyone in authority. Get one of those small tape recorders, hit recordwhen he threats you and (make sure he does not know!) and play it.

If you beat him up you're probably going to get in trouble, or he'll get more people and go after you.

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manadren · Post by **manadren** » Mon Mar 14, 2005 9:32 pm

Well, for one thing, I seriously doubt that you'd get beat up so bad that you life would be dependant on an IV or some kind of life support. Not to say it's impossible, but without some kind of weapon, it would take some serious effort to do that kind of damage, and regardless of how bad this guy is, I don't think he'd go that far.

Talking to a teacher or the principal can help, but there is a limit to what they can do unless he right out hits you unprovoked, In which case it might be a good idea to get fimiliar with the school rules on such things. At my school it was an 180 day suspension, which essentially meant you were expelled. Of course there can be the issue of proving it, so keep that in mind.

Otherwise I would say simply try to ignore him. Guys like that get off on how you react to the bullying, so if you don't it just isn't fun anymore for them.

Just don't fight him. There are rules, laws, against this kind of stuff, so use that against him.

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Chyse · Post by **Chyse** » Mon Mar 14, 2005 9:45 pm

thanx that helps. i also talked to my best friend and my father. they helped me too. thanx for your support.

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fragged one · Post by **fragged one** » Fri Mar 18, 2005 11:21 pm

kill yourself...if you can find some bleach and some ammonia, you can mix the two for a nice toxic gas.

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Bookworm · Post by **Bookworm** » Fri Mar 18, 2005 11:59 pm

fragged one wrote: kill yourself...if you can find some bleach and some ammonia, you can mix the two for a nice toxic gas.

Don't listen to him. Toxic gases are not nice.

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Joe · Post by **Joe** » Sun Mar 20, 2005 10:57 pm

goalguarder12 wrote: this kid at school. is really mean to me. he keeps talking about beating me up. i finally want to beat him up. wether i die or not. i don't care anymore. he deserves every bit of pain i can deal to him. i told this to my friend. she got mad at me. after arguing for about 25 mins. i leave. and say, " from now on, i have no feelings." she says," chris, don't beat him up." and i reply with," no, i will fight him, and if i lose, i'll let him beat me up. until i go to the hospital. and then, i'll let go, i'll pull out the IV." then i walked inside and slammed the door.

please help. i cant do this much longer.

Relax you think waaaaay to much. If the guy is gonna fight you then you fight back. You gotta act tough none of this "like i'm gonna take poison" crap. Just live and don't worry. Everything works out.

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Mon Mar 21, 2005 10:10 pm

fragged one wrote: kill yourself...if you can find some bleach and some ammonia, you can mix the two for a nice toxic gas.

bastard you are....

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fragged one · Post by **fragged one** » Mon Mar 21, 2005 11:00 pm

Minnie wrote:
fragged one wrote: kill yourself...if you can find some bleach and some ammonia, you can mix the two for a nice toxic gas.

bastard you are....

he's just a little boy crying for attention.

go play some baseball or something.

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Jex Bane · Post by **Jex Bane** » Tue Mar 22, 2005 3:35 pm

tell you what
i havn't read what everyone else has written
and i wont, here is my take on it

but, you fighting really solves nothing, if he has a grudge against you that you can't controll, there isn't much you can do unless HE starts a fight, but dont be the first to start a fight.
I am a docile person
but, a guy that bothers me all the damn time came up to me, while i was sitting in this very spot and pinched me in the back of my arm (very annoying sob and has a habbit of doing that) so, before he could blink i was on my feet and he was on the ground, needless to say, the a$$ wont bother me again, you may be affraid of the guy, but odds are, he is pretty weak and only bullies b/c it makes him feel better about his insecurities, so, if he does try to fight, fight back, no sense in letting someone beat the piss out of you just to keep out of trouble or to make a friend happy, dont start shite, but dont take shite, if you do, ppl will see that and give u shite until u make a stand.

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Tue Mar 22, 2005 10:00 pm

fragged one wrote:
Minnie wrote:
fragged one wrote: kill yourself...if you can find some bleach and some ammonia, you can mix the two for a nice toxic gas.

bastard you are....

he's just a little boy crying for attention.

go play some baseball or something.

We all know that is what you would do if you were a little boy...oh wait your 26 and still go run and play baseball!

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Jex Bane · Post by **Jex Bane** » Wed Mar 23, 2005 3:24 pm

cold mofos up in dis piece!!!!

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ycontrol · Post by **ycontrol** » Wed Mar 23, 2005 10:43 pm

Exactly the same thing happened to me when I first started junior high. This guy was always picking on me....picking on everybody too...not just me. I told my history teacher and everything...I said that he was always bugging me and I couldn't take it anymore, I was gonna do something about it if it didn't stop. So one day I was waiting outside the school for a drive when the kid came up to me and stole my bookbag.....I flipped....I chased him down and beat the shite out of him. He was a really big guy too.....way bigger than me....huge.....but he wasn't expecting it and he didn't even get a punch in....I totally beat the crap out of him....it was awesome...I felt so good about it. The principal came and pulled me off the guy, I got 3 days out of school suspension and the guy never bugged anybody again. He's a great guy now....we get along great...and he's still huge...he could totally kick my ass.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Thu Mar 24, 2005 2:20 pm

I had this guy bugging me too... only if I had the knowledge then, that I have now, and I had the whole basement to myself then, so more room, definatly I would of went to school with a tesla coil or other "suprise" device to freak the guy out. Oh man would have been fun.

I look back at those days and wonder why I did not just punch him out... but in the end I did the right thing and told the school principal.

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ycontrol · Post by **ycontrol** » Thu Mar 24, 2005 2:26 pm

Yea, just in my case telling did no good. I told everybody but I'm from a small place and bullying wasn't so feared then as it is now....a mans got to do what a mans got to do......lol....I'll never be a man. lol

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manadren · Post by **manadren** » Fri Mar 25, 2005 5:36 pm

I really didn't see any bullying in high school myself. Mind you I wasn't really a small guy either, so people really didn't bug me. But in elementary and middle school I saw a little bit, and I got in a few fights as a result of it, not that I was ever a really good fighter though. I got crappy memory of stuff back then, so I can't give much advice. The few specific instances I remember, things cooled down after the encounter, but there was no "I showed him!" moments.

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Cicero · Post by **Cicero** » Fri Mar 25, 2005 7:34 pm

A 13 year old tried to bully/start a fight with me and 2 of my friends a couple of months back. I pushed him into a wall and he hasnt come near me since.

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000 · Post by **000** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 12:33 am

Oh good god! now I feel old. I think I might kill myself.

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wasting_time27 · Post by **wasting_time27** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 12:35 pm

i used to get picked on a lot, it was just because i have tourette syndrome too, but now everybody thinks its cool, so now im friends with everybody. wierd.

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Red Squirrel · Post by **Red Squirrel** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 4:56 pm

Cicero wrote: A 13 year old tried to bully/start a fight with me and 2 of my friends a couple of months back. I pushed him into a wall and he hasnt come near me since.

hahaha that reminds me when I was in grade 11 (like 2 years ago) some grade 7 wanted to beat me up.

I just laughed in his face and kept walking.

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Minnie · Post by **Minnie** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 5:25 pm

wasting_time27 wrote: i used to get picked on a lot, it was just because i have tourette syndrome too, but now everybody thinks its cool, so now im friends with everybody. wierd.

you have tourette syndrome?

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wasting_time27 · Post by **wasting_time27** » Sat Mar 26, 2005 8:36 pm

yesums i do.

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Reaper · Post by **Reaper** » Sat May 07, 2005 10:49 pm

fragged one wrote:
Minnie wrote:
fragged one wrote: kill yourself...if you can find some bleach and some ammonia, you can mix the two for a nice toxic gas.

bastard you are....

he's just a little boy crying for attention.

go play some baseball or something.

Yeah, no one suffers from depression anymore. Everyone's just fine and happy! Dumbass.

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Brooklynite · Post by **Brooklynite** » Sun May 08, 2005 1:35 am

goalguarder12 wrote: this kid at school. is really mean to me. he keeps talking about beating me up. i finally want to beat him up. wether i die or not. i don't care anymore. he deserves every bit of pain i can deal to him. i told this to my friend. she got mad at me. after arguing for about 25 mins. i leave. and say, " from now on, i have no feelings." she says," chris, don't beat him up." and i reply with," no, i will fight him, and if i lose, i'll let him beat me up. until i go to the hospital. and then, i'll let go, i'll pull out the IV." then i walked inside and slammed the door.

please help. i cant do this much longer.

From what you are telling me, it seems as if this guy is bigger than you, so you should avoid fighting with him. Instead, I would suggest taking the diplomatic route. Tell the school about this bully. If this isn't effecitve, call the police. Get some of your friends to back up your story. If the victimization persists just transfer to another school or better yet get home schooled. If are subjected to this harrassment for a long enough time it could make you mentally ill. So if the first two things that I told you dont work then you need to just get out of that school.
I myself had a lot of experience with victimization in school. I fell for you, and I hope everything works out. If you ever need to talk to someone, feel free to contact me on AIM. I may be able to help you out. Peace be with you.

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sintekk · Post by **sintekk** » Sun May 08, 2005 1:56 am

"If the victimization persists just transfer to another school or better yet get home schooled."
Honestly, seems like a bad idea to me. If you can't stand up to this bully, you're going to crumble under preassure in other circumstances. Bullies get bored easily, just don't try to fan the flame.

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