Bookworm wrote: Individual people have their own set of personal values. That's a given. People are going to vote for legislators and support laws that most closely reflect their personal values. Is there anything wrong with that? At least in this case, the majority of people have the same values as I have, so of course I don't have a problem with it.
I love how people use the belief that "
the majority of Americans" are against gay marriage as a justification for being against gay marriage.
So What? It should come as no surprise to you that at one point in time, "
the majority of Americans" were against interracial marriages. Does that mean that banning interracial marriages was "right?" Not too long ago, and perhaps even still today, "
the majority of Americans" thought/think that homosexuality is wrong. Does that mean that laws banning the act or practice of being a homosexual are "right" or "okay?" At one time, "
the majority of Americans" believed that complete segragation was a good idea. Did that make segragation "right" or "okay?" "
The majority of Americans" used to think that women should not have the right to vote because they are inferior to men and don't
belong in the political process. Did that mean that women were in fact inferior to men and did not deserve the right to vote? The answer to all these questions is
NO. Similarly, just because "
the majority of Americans" think that a life-long commitment between two men or two women should not be recognized by our government as a ligitimate, meaningful relationship and that they should not be able to enjoy the same privileges and benefits as a straight married couple, does not make laws banning such marriages or the relationship in the first place "right." Consequently I was hoping you would feel obligated to provide some kind of an argument or justification for being in favor of banning gay marriage other than, "
the majority of Americans" are against it. But if that's all you need, then that's all you need.
Bookworm wrote: I'm just totally shocked to find out now that you disagree with me.
Yes, shocking I know. But you never told me if that is in fact what you were saying.
shenbaw wrote: just to clarify and please correct me if I'm wrong, but you are essentially saying that the simple fact that a majority of the people in a country support a particular law, makes that law right or make it "make sense." Is that what you are saying?
Bookworm wrote: And I never said that states are compelled to recognize another state's marriage, but the fact remains that they do. Are you saying it would be acceptable to have a situation where someone gets married in Kansas, but if they decide to move to Ohio, they wouldn't be legally recognized anymore?
This situation, in my opinion, would be much more workable, if you will, then forcing every state in the union to recognize or to not recognize marriages that they do or do not agree with. If a gay couple gets married in California, and they want to enjoy the benefits of being a married couple, then they must reside in the state where they were married or in another state that recognizes marriages in California. That way, let's just say that Minnesota makes gay marriage legal, and someone like you doesn't like it, they can move to North Dakota or Iowa. Or if someone like me were living in North Dakota and didn't like the idea of living in a state that officially endorses discrimination against homosexuals, I could move some place else. Essentially it would create "Gay friendly" and "Not Gay friendly" states, but isn't that the way the conservative right wants this country anyway?
Black and
White?
Completely polarized from sea to shining sea? After all, "If you're not for us, you're against us," right?
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